So many of you single buds out there found the article’ Spice up your Long Distance Relationship(LDR), follow these cute tips ‘ heartrending because it made you curse your singlehood.
Most of the replies I received were were like’ You first need to be in a relationship for being in an LDR ‘, I know being single in a world which is so obsessed with love and relationships makes you feel left out and not to forget those cute relationships goals pictures and vlog which makes you feel ‘ Why not me!!!’
Here I am your personal cupid who will try to hook you up this year, provided that you make a move and from here you got the first trick to jump out of your Singlehood, Make A Move!
Am I emotionally available for a relationship?
If you’re still hung up on your ex or a past relationship, then it’s best to take it easy and see where things go rather than jumping into it head first.
So, if you’re single and unhappy about it here is a crash course for you!
Where there is a will there is away!
First thing first, no one wants a coward as a partner if you don’t have the courage to ask your crush for a date then you should give up the idea of showering your love on them because love is a matter of courage and of course the opportunity. Be brave enough to ask them out, in case things do not go your way, simply say you were kidding or it was crazy dare by your friend and run! But the key is ‘everything is possible’, you just need to get out of your own way and start believing in yourself.
Have high standards; don’t fall for unrequited love!
This one is crucial, don’t just date someone because you don’t want to be alone. I can’t tell you how many people I know who just “settle” because they hate being alone. You need to have the mindset that anyone who doesn’t want you is a fool, and so you wouldn’t want them anyway. And remember when you love yourself people around you will love you back, forget, never forget you attract what you think.
Don’t chase anyone
And I mean it. Don’t even think about it! looking desperate makes you look like a fickle person and no one like to date such personalities!
” If someone is showing you that they would rather not date you, believe them. Shrug your shoulders and move on. It’s their loss, not yours. No, really — it is.
Be the person you want to date
Don’t look for someone to “complete you.” If you need someone to complete you, then you on the wrong path. You want someone to think “Wow! This person is dating ME?! I’m the luckiest guy/girl on the planet!” then become that person first.
Focus on what you have!
When you focus on the negativity of being single, you are only putting negative vibrations out there to everyone. When you focus on the good things, your vibration will change to being positive. Other people will pick up on it and want to be around you even more than they already do. And who doesn’t want a positive person by their side?
Perfection takes time! Rome wasn’t built in a day. So if you want greatness, you need to be willing to wait it out! Don’t just settle for whatever comes your way. Make sure that when you choose a partner, that he/she is who really you want. You two should be a good match. If not, you might find yourself having to repeat the process of being single once again. So decide what you want, and have confidence that in time, you will definitely find “the one.”